When you HATE cake but you’re trying to be nice

So you hate cake, but you’re trying to be nice and appease you’re wedding guests. First off, it’s your wedding, do what makes you happy.

“It’s my party I can [do what I want]” I took some creative liberties there…

There is nothing in the rule book that says you HAVE to have cake. In fact, there isn’t a rule book. If you want  a giant gummy bear with a bow tie, get it. If you want to stay healthy and have a fancy fruit tower, do it!

I’ve shot weddings where the venue served a special desert instead of cake (there was still a cake cutting, but they didn’t offer any of it to the guests). I’ve shot a wedding where the couple had a giant rice krispie and some cake-pops in lieu of cake.

The Knot

There’s a new trend where weddings are offering wheels of cheese dressed up like cake. — Mmmm cheese! Sign me up for those weddings. Or what about a pegboard covered in donuts? Donut mind if I do (Thank’s for sharing this one Bethany)

It might be harder to get those cute “cake in the face” shots, but I find it refreshing to offer something unique and completely you instead of staying traditional to appease people.

Always be yourself, unless you can be Princess Leia, then be Princess Leia.

 

Would you (or did you) have something other than cake at your wedding? I’d love to hear what it was.

If you could re-do your wedding, what would you change?

If you stumbled upon the time-machine (and actually knew how to use it with out torching your existence) would you make any changes to your wedding? What would you do different?

For Andy and me, we pretty much went in a inexpensive rout (because I am cheap). We loved our cake (made by a friend with a cake business) and venue (my parents home). We loved the theme –Halloween.

If we could have a mulligan, we would:

1. We would have splurged on a professional wedding photographer. This is a big one for me and my family. My mom even has mentioned a time or two that she wished she had hired a wedding photographer. I loved my photographer, he was my teacher and mentor in college, but he is not a wedding photographer. He is a photojournalist. It would have been nice to have someone there who was a wedding pro. Someone who had done plenty of weddings and knew what to expect and where to be instinctively. Also, I would have liked my friend to just enjoy the wedding instead of work.

2. I would have RENTED my wedding dress from rent-the-runway or something. Gotten a pretty dress that was maybe a little cheaper then send it back. My dress is currently hanging in my closet taking up space. I haven’t opened it in years. Hopefully moths haven’t gotten into it. Maybe one day I’ll donate it to someone in need.

3. We would have picked a different florist. Same flowers, just someone else delivering them. Maybe we would’ve even picked them up our self from the Houston flower district.


Are you getting married soon? Was this helpful? Is there anything in particular you are interested in asking couples who’ve been there-done that?

 

 

Top 10 LGBTQ Wedding Photos

Pride Month is here!

As a kid, I was always obsessed with rainbows, I even had a “rainbow blankey” that I couldn’t sleep without. Actually, I still love them, and get a little squirmy when I see the colors out of order or hear someone having to google the order of the rainbow. What does that have to do with Pride month, very little except for all of the rainbow flags that’ll be flying high.

Andy and I love taking Tristan out to the pride parade every year. Everything is so colorful and the people are always super nice. In fact, one of my couples actually met at the Houston Pride Parade. Boy is it always HOT, though. If you’re going, make sure to bring water and a hat. Houston Pride Parade is June 23rd from 12pm – 7pm.

Probably the coolest thing about Pride month is how unabashedly real people are. I find the LQBTQ community is the most true-to themselves community in the first place, but more so during the month of June.

Take a look at some of my favorite LGBTQ weddings as I try to get  True to your heart from Mulan out of my head.

 

 

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Nerdy Wedding Sign Inspirations

Nerdy Wedding Signs

Let your nerd hang out!

Achievement Unlocked -Studio222 Photography

Hello everyone! Today I wanted to share some amazing signs that I found to help inspire your nerdy wedding.

I feel like one of the latest trends that I’ve been seeing more and more is couples letting their nerd hang out. Before, people had traditional weddings where basically the color and maybe the flowers were the only thing that truly represented them. Slowly nerdy things started seeping into the industry. First the cakes, then small details in bouquets and boutonnieres to an all out, in your face ‘We’re nerds and we’re proud of it!’

I can’t even begin to express how happy this makes me feel.

@RFoxPersonalizations

So, let me start with the funny gaming signs I found. Andy Loves these ideas.

In my mind I see an adorable flower-girl with a wooden sign that says either “Game Over” or “Achievement Unlocked…” Maybe the “Game Over” heart is red on the back and she walks up the isle with the red heart then down the isle with the “Game Over” side. The Achievement Unlocked would also be fun to see at the head dinner table or as the wedding couple make their grand entrance. “Achievement Unlocked – Married”

Math reminds me of home. It might not have been my strongest subject, but any sort of math reminds me of my parents (who both have degrees in chemistry).

@HomeSweetSignsNH

This adorable sign, which was probably made to be displayed in a home would be adorable in a number of places. I could see it at the wedding party table, or at the alter. I could even see it being carried down the isle with a tail of numbers trailing it.

 

Man, do I LOVE Etsy.

 

Tell me what you think. Have you or a friend used a nerdy sign? What did it say??

New Name, Same Great Taste

After 7 years as Photography by Kelly, it was time for a change.

It’s o-fish-al, we’ve changed our name.

I wanted my very first post on my new website and re-branded business, to be about how I got here. To share with you who I am and why I did what I did.

I started this wedding photography business childless, unmarried and living with my parents (man that sounds depressing). My maiden name is long and slightly difficult to say and spell, though it’s phonetic. I decided, to make things easy, I would go by Photography by Kelly. Easy to remember, say and… well not so easy to spell in turned out. I had to shorten the URL because someone else owned the full spelling. It became cumbersome to spell out my website to people. “P.h.o.t.o.g-by-kelly.com”

A friend once told me my answering machine message was WAY too long. I was telling people to leave a message, text or email me. Then I would spell out my email on my message… Needless to say, very few people stuck around until the end of the message to actually leave me a message.

After I married Andy, I chose to keep the name. I had become accustomed to it and had gotten used to spelling the web address for people.  I had designed the logo and spent many sleepless nights tweaking my wedding photography website. It was my baby.

As the years progressed, I slowly dragged my husband into the business. Andy became my second shooter, my best asset at wedding client meetings and my “pack-mule” as he says. I realized the photography business had become more than just mine. It had become a family business. Something for us to share in and I wanted to represent that somehow.

For a brief moment, I considered Urban Photography. It was short and to the point. I could pass it down to Tristan if he wanted it. It also included one of my favorite styles of photography, urban photography. I’m a sucker for a woman in a wedding gown or an engaged couple dressed to the nines in front of  wall. But, I didn’t want to have to compete with urban photography, the style, on search-engines. I would have been exchanging one issue for the next.

I chose to rename my business Kelly Urban Photography. Simple and to the point. I love that Andy can now have a stake in the business. My name is his name. The cherry on top, I’m able to incorporate my love for urban photography, it was like kismet. I especially love that I don’t have to shorten the URL, and I hope to be doing a whole lot less spelling. Let me tell you, dyslexics HATE to spell.

So here I am standing –or actually sitting– in front of you, hoping you will love all of the changes as much as I do. So take a look around and drop us a line. Let me know what you think about the changes.

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A Southwest Houston wedding photographer
Richmond, TX

A Southwest Houston wedding photographer
Richmond, TX
kelly@kellyurbanphotography.com
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A Houston wedding photographer

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