Happy National Tequila Day!!

It’s national Tequila day, and I thought I might find some interesting tequila recipes for your wedding.

I don’t usually share food blogs, but I thought for Tequila day, I would make an exception. I scowered the internet looking for fun and interesting drinks, main courses and deserts. There were so many options it was hard to just pick a few. Also, I have a hard time following recipes. I tend to use the recipe as a guideline. I was glad I had family in town this weekend when I was preparing everything. They were my guinea pig.

 

Drink — Blackberry Lemonade Margarita

Let’s start with the drink. I have a family recipe for a frozen margarita, but I wanted to try something a little different. I LOVE blackberries and thought a black berry lemonade sounded very refreshing for a summer wedding drink. It’s also so pretty. This drink was sweet, tart and strong.

How did it go? Boy is this a strong drink! It could make you forget feelings.

(recipe here)

My changes — Most of my family is on a strict diet. I replaced the sugar (that actually goes into the drink) with Truvia and I used a 90 calorie lemonade from the store.

 

 

 

 

Main Course — Tequila-Lime Pork Tenderloin

How did it go? I made some adjustments to the recipe but basically, I had a really big piece of meat (that’s what he said) that did not cook in the amount of time the recipe stated it should. I didn’t think it would. My mom was a bit inpatient so the edges got a bit charcoaled because we cranked up the heat in the grill. It was a little dry, because it was cooked too fast.

(recipe here)

My changes — The main course I made several changes to. First, and foremost, I brined (2 qt water, 1/2 cup of salt and a dollop of minced garlic) the pork loin (8lb for 5 hours). You are supposed to brine an hour per pound, but the recipe didn’t call for brining and I was only doing it to open the pores a bit to allow more of the marinade in. The second change I made was to substitute half of the orange juice with triple sec. I also took the remaining marinade, added cornstarch and boiled it to make a sauce.

 

Cake

I was going to make something, but I ran out of time and I was afraid the dessert would be left for me alone to eat… no one wants to eat cake alone. Instead, I will direct you to a bakery I discovered.

Bundt-Cake-A-Holic is a Houston area bakery who makes boozy bundt cakes and wedding cakes. They have a VIP cake that has Silver Patron in it. I assume it is sort of lime flavored. I was really impressed with the prices, especially for the wedding cakes.

 

What does all this have to do with weddings and wedding photography? meh 🤷‍♀️

Alcohol and good food. That’s the correlation.

The day my expensive hobby became a business

I was reading a Facebook post from a fellow wedding photographer in one of my wedding photographer groups that posed a question, “When did you first consider your photography as a business and not just a hobby.”

After college, I fully expected to land a career in the Advertising world. I was mistaken. For fun, and to take my mind off of the monotonous grind of job hunting that was getting me nowhere, I started taking pictures of friends and family’s. I actually had an advertising/photography business in the beginning. I took “commercial pictures” for small businesses, pictures of babies, graduations, family portraits and a few weddings. I already had a lot of experience as a photojournalist in college and used that knowledge to grow my hobby.

Wedding photography from one of the first weddings I photographed.

The very first two weddings I ever photographed I did for free. I ran a Craig’s List advertisement where I gave away 2 free wedding photography packages–basically I spent most of the day and evening with the two couples. I was new to the wedding world. I hadn’t ever been a second-shooter, I didn’t even know that was a thing. All I knew was that I needed wedding photos for my portfolio if I wanted to book more weddings.

I put together a website (did the HTML myself) and got to work getting more clients. I got a tax ID and set up a separate banking account (which I supplemented from my own account). That was the day I considered myself a business owner.

That was more than 5-years ago. I’ve never looked back and thought anything else.

Planning your Engagement Photo – Part 1 – Location

You’ve got the ring (Congratulations!) and you’ve settled on a photographer for your engagement portraits (*wink wink*) and now you’re wondering what to do next.

There’s a few things to do to prepare yourself for your engagement portraits.

  1. Determine the best location for your engagement portraits.
  2. Determine the best day & time for your engagement portraits.
  3. Determine what to wear for your engagement portraits.
  4. Determine what to bring with you for your engagement portraits.

Today’s blog is part 1 of 4 in an engagement portrait session to do list. Let’s dive right in.

Location is probably the most important part of your engagement session. It’s what sparks the flame of creativity and personalty. The location of your engagement portrait session is the backbone to all of your photos.

First, ask yourself, ‘what is our personality as a couple?’

-What do you like to do together?

-Where did you meet? When did you meet?

-Where are you getting married?

-When are you getting married?

-What is your wedding style? is it rustic, elegant, edgie, nautical, Disney themed…?

Once you’ve answered these questions, you and your wedding photographer (wink 😉) will be able to choose a location that best suits your style and personalty.

 

Some examples

You’re planing a rustic wedding: You might be interested in taking engagement photos at a location with wide open fields, old oak trees, farm animals…

You’re a couple who enjoys the city night life: You might be interested in a more urban (haha see what I did there?) setting. I might suggest an engagement portrait session inside the Downtown Houston area with bricks, graffiti, cityscapes and crosswalks.

You’re getting married in the Bahamas (jealous!): You might be interested in taking your engagement portraits on the beach.

 

Was this helpful?Leave a love ❤️❤️ note below. Tell me some information about you and your wedding and I can respond with a suggested location.

 

How to Perfect the Sparkler Exit

One of my all time favorite wedding photography shot at a wedding is the sparkler grand exit. They are fun, elegant and at times, unpredictable. The warm glow you get from a sparkler image really mimics the glow of the newlyweds. Generally, sparklers are pretty uniform but I love it when I can capture a sparkler that has sputtered and shot a line of fire down the image. Sparkler exits can be tricky to the untrained, though.

 

Tips to getting the PERFECT wedding sparkler exit photo

  1. Get a good number of friends and family to participate
  2. Have the wedding couple slowly walk halfway through the crowd
  3. Have everyone in front of the couple hold their sparklers down low (except for 1 or 2 people right next to the photographer). As the couple passes guests, have them lift their sparkler high (like a sparkler wave) and fill in the space behind the couple.
  4. Have the newlyweds stop in the middle of the crowd and kiss or dip or do something cute for the wedding photographer to grab. Hold for a minute or two then continue walking. Have them stop once more just past all of the sparklers and repeat the kiss, or look over their shoulder at their friends.
  5. Do it again!
    1. It’s fun for everyone and it gives the wedding photographer a chance to get all of the shots and make any adjustments they need.

Some wedding photographers like to

bring in a flash to help brighten the couple. I don’t do this. The color of the flash (a more blue tone) is way different from a sparkler. I could have a flash with a warm filter, but I prefer to use my wide open lenses and just use the available light. It gives the image a more romantic look. Like a candlelit image.

You can buy sparklers online (I think) but it is much easier and cheaper to just plan ahead and buy them during the 4th of

July celebrations or New-year celebrations. Tomorrow is July 4th, there will be plenty of firework stalls open. Go out and get a bunch of boxes and put them in a safe, dry place. $20 will get you A LOT of sparklers.

Did you have a sparkler exit at your wedding?

Urban Family Photo’s — That I didn’t Have to Take!

When the tables turn and you have to be in front of the camera…

99% of the time, Andy and I are behind the camera, not in front of it. This year, with all of the changes to the business, I thought it would be a good idea to hire someone to take family photos of us. Photos we could use on the website.

Up until this point, the only people who have taken photos of my family have been me or Andy (using the tripod and a remote), or my friends and family, nothing professional, though.

Taking your own family photos is HARD!

I watch others when I take their photos and I think, how nice it would be for someone to act a fool behind the camera to make us smile while someone else is making sure we still look good in the pictures.

For me, doing it myself I can’t see what the photos look like when I hit the trigger button. I know what I should look like, and what Andy and Tristan (hopefully) look like. But I get back to the camera and someone isn’t looking at the camera or someone isn’t cooperating. Tristan smiles, but doesn’t look at the camera. He looks off into the distance for some reason? Andy hates being in front of the camera and bucks me. He squints, doesn’t smile and gets distracted. There is a whole lot of ADH-OOH Shiny going on in this family.

Right before we launched the new brand and website, I hired Reed Gallagher. We meet up with Reed and his mother at the old grain silo in Houston, near Navigation rd. I hadn’t ever been to this location but google maps had a lot of photos of the location and I could see a lot of potential.

It was a bit warm (nothing like it is now) and Tristan probably only has about 30-40 minutes worth of cooperation in him. he did very well and we got about what we expected out of him. I was pleased that Reed’s assistant was able to get Tristan to look at the camera and smile. It always helps to tell the photographer before hand what your issues are in photos. Tristan is notorious for smiling at the camera but looking away.

After the shoot, we treated ourselves to a well deserved cold beer from 8th Wonder while Tristan ran around like a crazy person with the other kids at the brewery.

Any way, I’ll stop rambling and just show you the photos from the session.

Hunter & Ariana’s Outdoor Wedding at White Oaks on the Bayou

A Summer Wedding at White Oaks on the Bayou

Last Friday, Andy and I traveled to Simonton to one of my favorite venues, White Oaks on the Bayou for Hunter and Ariana’s wedding. The venue is out in the country, secluded from the hustle and bustle of city life with a quaint stream that runs past.

Before the wedding started, Hunter donned a black sleep mask and was lead by Ariana’s father into a private part of the venue. The couple was able to have a sweet one on one where they could calm their nerves and just enjoy the moment alone… with me, the fly on the wall the wedding photographer.

Andy and I were hoping for a little bit cooler of an evening for Hunter & Ariana’s wedding, but because of all of the rain we got earlier in the week, it was both hot AND muggy. I defiantly had makeup drip into my eyes 5 minutes into the ceremony. The heat didn’t stop the drone, though. We were so excited that we were able to fly the drone and get some areal photos as well as video from the ceremony.

The part entered the ceremony to Turning Pages by Sleeping at Last, which is such a beautiful song. Look it up if you are thinking about romantic songs.

One of my favorite parts at a wedding is photographing the grooms face when he sees his bride for the first time. As Ariana glided down the aisle, Hunter teared up (it could have been sweat) His brother stood next to him and gave him several comforting shoulder squeezes. At one point, hunter pulled out a handkerchief to wipe his eyes. It was so sweet, and I am so happy I was able to capture that moment.

I absolutely loved the ring bearer’s sign which said “Too late to run, here she comes!” on one side and “Forever and ever… AMEN” on the other. He was so cute with it. You could tell he understood the huge responsibility he had been given and he was going to do his very best.

After announcing Hunter & Ariana man and wife, the wedding party had a dance-party exited to Let’s Groove by Earth Wind and Fire. Guests shot confetti into the air as the party passed.

The entire wedding was so much fun to be a part of. I am so happy that Andy and I were there to capture the precious moments.

Vendors

Dress: David’s Bridal

Flowers: The Floral Leaf

Venue: White Oaks on the Bayou

Hair & Makeup: Empire Faces

DJ: Sandra Moseby

Ariana’s White oaks on the Bayou Bridal Portraits

Happy Wedding Day to Ariana & Hunter!

I can’t believe this day is finally here. I am sure after all of their hard work, Ariana & Hunter can’t either.

As it is my tradition to keep bridal portraits under lock and key until after the wedding day– for obvious reasons– I am starting a new tradition. I’m sharing the bridal session on the wedding day, after Hunter has had his chance to see Ariana first.

A little over a month ago, I met up with Ariana, her mother and sister, Sophia at White Oaks on the Bayou out in Simonton. It was a pretty steamy May afternoon. Luckily, we were able to take the majority of the bridal portraits inside the White Oaks venue. We only ventured out for a few minutes at the end. Thank God for the breeze!

Ariana’s mom and Sophia were such a huge help! I couldn’t have gotten half of the amazing photos I did with out their help. Also, I probably would have fallen off Betsy, my ladder, if it weren’t for their assistance.

Ariana looked stunning in that lace adorned mermaid gown. I’m especially obsessed with the crystal and rose-gold belt. The belt matched Ariana & Hunter’s ring perfectly. In fact, her necklace and earnings were also the same breathtaking rose-gold color. The long veil put the look over the top. I loved that the veil was just a little longer than her train. Can you believe she bought if off someone on Facebook!? Ariana made that dress look good! I wish I could pull off the mermaid look.

Lades and gentlemen, here’s what the future wedding trends are going to look like. Let us know what you think about the bridal portrait session or just congratulate the happy couple on just now tying the knot, literally.

Vendors

Dress: David’s Bridal

Flowers: The Floral Leaf

Venue: White Oaks on the Bayou

Hair & Makeup: Empire Faces
(Side note: The makeup stood the test of the Texas heat and humidity amazingly!)

Summer Wedding Inspiration

It’s officially summer (in 2 days), and you know what that means.

Sweat stains, mosquito’s, and broken AC’s
Margaritas by the pool, fun at the beach and summer-time weddings!

Summer weddings in Houston can be a little tricky, but a lot of fun if you follow a few simple rules.

  1. Please, please, please do not have an outdoor wedding at high-noon in the middle of summer. Summer outdoor weddings in Houston can be really beautiful and tolerable closer to dusk, but stifling closer to noon.
  2. Be aware of your surroundings.
    1. AstroTurf traps heat. It could be 80 degrees in the shade, but 160 in the middle of the turf.
    2. Concrete reflects light & heat.
    3. Consider a wedding under ancient oak trees.
  3. Make sure you have a nearby facility with AC & cool drinks on hand.
  4. Offer fans or umbrellas to your guests for your ceremony (if you are having an outdoor wedding).
  5. Have a sunscreen & mosquito spray station.

Colors

Teal, pink, Lemon, Lime, violet

Fun vibrant colors are great for summer weddings. Make sure if you are going to have a darker color like violet to pare it with a brighter colors like lemon. You can find amazing color pallets on Pinterest by just searching “summer colors.”

 

Flowers

Succulents, sunflowers, daisy’s, baby’s breath, roses

The Best Wedding Schedule Template EVER!

Every wedding is different, but after several years as a wedding photographer, I’ve developed a surefire schedule that works every time for all types of weddings.

Check out #8,  it’s our favorite.

1. Make sure to schedule time before your wedding for group photos. Photos of bridesmaids with bride, grooms men with the groom. I know they love you, but once the bar opens, you might have lost them for the evening. If you want to do a first look (which I LOVE!) or even a first touch (holding hands around a wall or door so you can’t see each other), make sure to put aside 20-30 minutes.

2. Know how many people you’re taking family photos with after your wedding. Family photos can take up A LOT of time. It takes time to get people to cooperate. Your cousin Jeff just wants to tell jokes by the bar and the 12 great grand kids are running around like banshees screaming for cake. Sometimes, it’s necessary to take photos of only the immediate family. You can always grab the photographer throughout the night to snap a shot with you and your great uncle Lloyd.

3. Something I’ve seen before and LOVE is the grand entrance sweeping into your first dance. I absolutely love how natural it feels to just go right into a dance as soon as you are announced to your friends and family.

4. One of the biggest things I always suggest is to do the cake cutting somewhere immediately after you start feeding your guests to right after your toasts. I do this because the sooner you start serving cake, the more cake will be consumed by the end of the night, and the less you have to take home. Cake is awesome, but not 4 days in a row.

5. While someone is cutting and serving cake, now’s the time for dances with mothers and fathers and anyone else important to you and your spouse. This also kicks off the dance floor for hopefully more dancing!

6. If you haven’t already, SPEECH, SPEECH, SPEECH!

7. Take a short break, eat, mingle, dance, EAT. Don’t take too big of a break though. I would say spend 30-45 minutes mingling then do the bouquet/garter/boutonniere toss. You want to make sure to do this before a large portion of your guests leave.

8. Now it’s almost time to fully relax. Mingle, make sure you have eaten (seriously, EAT!). Change if you are going to, but keep in mind the grand exit photos.

— Note: you can do a staged grand exit photo with a few (or all) of your wedding guests before the end of the night. This way, the photographer can leave after this and you don’t have to pay them for 3 more hours of drunken karaoke on the dance floor… though it looks AMAZING! You can also change into something a little more comfortable and not have to worry about the rest of your photos.

I find it very important to do all of the festivities as early as possible. I’ve seen weddings where things got off track and only 3 girls were there for the bouquet toss, or the MOB was packing up more than half the wedding cake because it didn’t get cut early enough. Timing is everything. If you don’t have a wedding coordinator, your wedding photographer or your DJ can help keep you on track

Feel free to pin or save the sample schedule below. Have you already tied the knot? Let us know how you did it. Everyone loves hearing about real weddings.

When you HATE cake but you’re trying to be nice

So you hate cake, but you’re trying to be nice and appease you’re wedding guests. First off, it’s your wedding, do what makes you happy.

“It’s my party I can [do what I want]” I took some creative liberties there…

There is nothing in the rule book that says you HAVE to have cake. In fact, there isn’t a rule book. If you want  a giant gummy bear with a bow tie, get it. If you want to stay healthy and have a fancy fruit tower, do it!

I’ve shot weddings where the venue served a special desert instead of cake (there was still a cake cutting, but they didn’t offer any of it to the guests). I’ve shot a wedding where the couple had a giant rice krispie and some cake-pops in lieu of cake.

The Knot

There’s a new trend where weddings are offering wheels of cheese dressed up like cake. — Mmmm cheese! Sign me up for those weddings. Or what about a pegboard covered in donuts? Donut mind if I do (Thank’s for sharing this one Bethany)

It might be harder to get those cute “cake in the face” shots, but I find it refreshing to offer something unique and completely you instead of staying traditional to appease people.

Always be yourself, unless you can be Princess Leia, then be Princess Leia.

 

Would you (or did you) have something other than cake at your wedding? I’d love to hear what it was.

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A Southwest Houston wedding photographer
Richmond, TX

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Richmond, TX
kelly@kellyurbanphotography.com
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