Planning a Micro-Wedding

Wedding styles change with the times, and with this pandemic looming over us, more and more couples have shifted to micro-weddings.

What is a micro-wedding? A micro wedding is an abbreviated celebration of marriage that has only a handful of invited guests (commonly 20 or less), is shorter in duration and is more simple in format, relaxed in atmosphere and less stress to organize than a traditional wedding.

What do you need to do to plan a micro-wedding?

  1. Set your budget: The average wedding in Houston costs $35,000, but you aren’t having an average wedding. You can probably cut that budget in half or even into a quarter of the price.
  2. Find a venue who can host an intimate wedding. You don’t need something HUGE since you will have fewer guests. You might even consider picking up and going on a mini road trip to a wedding location. There are tons of fun vacation locations around Texas that would make excellent wedding locations.
  3. Figure out what’s most important to you and your partner for your wedding.
  4. Figure out the guests you absolutely MUST have at your wedding.
  5. Of coarse, hire a wedding photographer, you’re going to want to capture every detail of your amazing wedding to share with your future children & grandchildren.

Micro-weddings can be so much fun to plan and attend. When life hands you lemons, you make a delicious spiked lemonade signature wedding cocktail. You’re wedding will be unique and totally you, and I can’t wait to see what you come up with. Don’t forget to bring me along to take your wedding photos!

Are you planing a micro-wedding? Message me for my package information.

The beginning of a new chapter

I just did a good thing. I don’t regret this thing at all…

There were a lot of firsts yesterday. It was Tristan’s first day of First grade and my first day as a full time wedding photographer.

My parents did a good job of raising me to be financially aware. That being said, I’ve wanted to go full time with my wedding photography business for a while now. Andy and I quietly started saving up and living off of his paycheck last December.

I was forced to pull the trigger last month. We were given the option to send Tristan back to school or set him up as a virtual student. After talking with Andy, my parents (who’ve been helping me with Tristan) and Tristan’s physician, we decided the best option for us was virtual learning.

I’m excited to start this new chapter in my life. I can’t wait to see what the rest of this year brings.

 

The New “Normal”?

When shit hit the fan, everyone told themselves, ‘it’s okay, it will go away, it will all be fine.’ We’ve nearly gone a year with COVID and for the next year at least, I see there being a ‘new normal’ for weddings.

Even when COVID calms down (finally) and people start to feel safe, there will still be people who don’t trust their new felt safety. What does that mean for weddings?

This means I get to become an intimate wedding photographer. I imagine the size of weddings will continue to be at a reduced size. There will be more intimate weddings of 50 or fewer guests. This could be GREAT for the wedding industry.

Hear me out, fewer guests means that couples can spend more money on themselves and the decorations they wanted, the flowers they really wanted and the top (most extravagant) intimate wedding photography package.

What I envision is a full scaled styled shoot for a real wedding. We as wedding professionals know that a styled shoot is just an extravagant wedding we would like to shoot, and use as inspiration for our clients. Everyone brings out the big guns, decorators bring their best, most expensive, decorations. Florists make designs they’ve been dreaming of since they were little, treats and mobile booze bars are arranged to perfection…

I imagine the new ‘normal’ might look like this:

  • 50 or fewer guests
  • a virtual experience for friends and family who couldn’t make it
  • Decorations to make your friends and family jealous.
  • The most romantic wedding you could have imagined.

 

 

Wedding Photography at the Springs Event Venue in Cypress, TX

A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to take wedding photos at the Springs Event Venue at Cypress Texas.

The entrance to the wedding venue looks like something plucked out of a fairy tale story, with its long driveway that rounds around a circle of greenery and marble.

As you walk inside, the venue opens up to a double winding staircase and beyond that a gorgeous space with high ceilings, chandeliers and a large floor to ceiling window that faces the setting sun.

Aside from the amazing potential for wedding photography on the inside of the venue, the outside gardens are breathtaking. Their trailing sweet potatoes vines, fountains and swaying weeping willow branches transforms the space into a fairy tale wedding.

 


Vendors


Venue: The SPRINGS Venue

Wedding Coordinator: Next Chapter Weddings

Flowers: Casas De Flores Design & Book a Bloom

Cake: Cakes by Gina

Deserts & Alcohol: Sam’s Sweet treats & Lady Bird & Twirl Cotton Candy & Traveling Spirit

Linens: Lavish Linens- A Luxury Linen Rental Boutique & Chairs, Covers and More &

Hair & Makeup: Simple Beauty Artistry & Lilly Bridal Artistry & Vivid Glam Artistry

Stationary: Le Le Lines

Calligrapher: Jamie Lindley Lettering

Dress: Something BLUE

Style & Design: Hopeful Events & Design

Balloon Garland: Balloon Luxe Events

Floral Preservation: Bloomsake

 

Top 10 First Wedding Kisses

Like fingerprints, every kiss at a wedding is completely unique and special.

In ancient Rome the first kiss was more transactional. In an age of widespread illiteracy, kisses served to seal agreements; thus the expression “to seal with a kiss”

I wanted to share my top 10 wedding kisses.

 

Love is Love

It’s been a while since I’ve sat in front of my computer and written anything. With all that’s going on in the world, all I seem to be able to do is sit and stare open-mouth at the TV, Tiktok, Facebook, the internet…

Since we’re in June, Pride-month, I wanted to post a love is love blog.

A little history:

June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn in the Greenwich Village neighborhood of Manhattan, New York City. Patrons of the Stonewall, other Village lesbian and gay bars, and neighborhood street people fought back when the police became violent. Marsha P. Johnson, a black trans woman, threw the first brick and Storme DeLarverie, a black lesbian woman, threw the first points. The riots are widely considered to constitute one of the most important events leading to the gay liberation movement[4][5][6][7] and the modern fight for LGBT rights in the United States.

The world we live in now is thanks to all of those brave people who came before us, but there’s still a lot of work to do and more brave people are being called to the fight for equal rights.

Make a difference, be the change.

love is beautiful in all of its forms. Cherish it, because it’s not every day it happens.

Jacob & Emily’s Re-Imagined Houston Covid-19 Wedding

When life hands you lemons, the best of us make lemonade. Emily & Jacob did just that. Their wedding was scheduled on April 25, in the height of the pandemic shutdown.

Instead of rescheduling their wedding, they decided to have a small (family only) wedding at a park in Houston. The ceremony was beautiful, and the weather was perfect. Emily’s mother walked her to the crops of trees where Jacob and his brother stood. Each family unit stayed at the 6 foot social distance.

After the ceremony, Emily and Jacob went their house to watch their friends and family drive by in a wedding parade. Friends stopped by to congratulate the happy couple. Some people threw confetti, others decorated their cars.

Honestly, the parade was so much fun and Emily & Jacob had huge smiles on their faces. I am totally stealing the parade idea for Tristan’s 6-th birthday!

Sometime later, the couple will have a reception so they can celebrate with all of their friends and family.

Top 10 Wedding Flower Photos

It’s been a while since I’ve posted a top-10 wedding photography post. I love wedding flowers, they really bring the much needed pizazz wedding decorations need. Wedding flowers can be in anything from a bouquet, boutonniere and hair to the more unique, table decoration, large alter decoration and cake!

Get creative, you don’t have to have the standard bouquet, change up the shape or what’s inside. Add something edible! Now’s the time to really think about some crazy unique things you can have in your bouquet.

 

Special thank you to some of the amazing florists featured above. Don’t forget to support small businesses. Mother’s Day is coming up. Have you bought flowers or plants for her? Try one of the below companies:

C + M Designs

Casa Del Floes Design

HEB Blooms

Holyoak Floral Designs

Tenacious Leaf

 

Did the COVID-19 K.O. Your wedding?

For some reason, I find myself imagining the COVID-19 virus as a WWE wrestler “coming to take your wedding OUT!”

It was a snowball effect. It started as a few out-of-town guests unable to travel then blossomed into local guests canceling and then the venue canceling the event…

Now we find our wedding unconscious on the ring floor while COVID-19 stands on top of it’s lifeless body riling the crowd up. What’s next?

Well like many WWE matches, the underdog eventually wins, so let’s pick up the pieces and see this to the end.

I can tell you that ALL of your wedding vendors want to continue being a part of your wedding, even if it’s on a different day, or (aside from your venue) at a different location.

Step 1: Pick a new date (hopefully one the venue has available). If there is a vendor you REALLY want at your wedding (like a wedding photographer) ask them if they’re available on the date you’re looking at. I’m concerned for the snowball effect this will have on 2021 wedding dates. Make sure to re-schedule as soon as you can.

Step 2: Inform your vendors of your new date/location. If you have a wedding coordinator, let them know and they should be able to get the info out to all of the other vendors.

Step 3: If some of your vendors are unavailable on your wedding date, ask who they recommend. On the plus side, you aren’t starting from scratch. You’ve already done most of the hard work.

Step 4: Get married!

Regardless of the outcome, this will be a story for you to tell your grandchildren.

 

 

Behind the scene with a wedding photographer

Have you ever been to a wedding and thought while watching the wedding photographer, that must be the best job to just show up with a camera and take a few photos.

When people think about wedding photographers and the work they do, they think about someone who directs people where and how to stand shoots a couple of quick pictures and moves on to another group of photo setups.

What many people may not realize is that we are so much more than just wedding photographers. We wear many hats at weddings.

So what exactly goes on behind the scenes of each wedding we photograph?

Houston Wedding PhotographerBefore your wedding even starts, we’re researching your venue (even if we’ve been there before). Coming up with an image game-plan. Prepping our gear to make sure the cameras and lenses are clean, the batteries are fully charged (with loads of backups) and that we have plenty of SD/Flash cards. We send a questionnaire to our couples to help us develop our wedding timeline. If the couple has a wedding coordinator, then we’ll develop a plan with the coordinator.

On your wedding day, we take photos of all the prep work that goes into your wedding. We are taking detail photos, photos if you getting into your dress, photos of boutonnieres being pinned.

An important element of our gear is a set of walki-talkies that help to communicate to the other photographer and between the couples on their wedding day. This allows us to move about with confidence that no one will see the bride before she is ready.

We bring snacks and emergency supplies like makeup remover, pins, a sewing kit… We help out in any way we can. I can’t tell you how many boutonnieres I’ve pinned, and how many lessons on “how to pin a boutonniere,” I’ve given.

Before your ceremony, we are getting into place and making sure everything is good to go. We try to move around quietly and without blocking your guests views. After your wedding, we gather your family and wedding party and start whittling down the people. We slowly send people inside until it is just the newley weds. This gives us some time to take some intimate photos between the two and allows time for everyone to settle for the couples grand entrance.

At the ceremony, we get a little breathing room. We check out schedule and talk with the DJ to make sure we’re on the same timeline. At this point, the DJ is usually running the show. We are taking all of the regular, cake cutting, first dance, speech photos, but we are also taking candid photos and group photos. Sometimes we answer guests questions, direct them to the bathroom, let them know when things are going to happen. I can’t help to dance at wedding, especially if the dance floor is empty. At the end of the wedding night, I try to help pick up a little before I leave.

After your wedding, some photographers are done. They send images off to someone to be edited (or they don’t edit). As soon as I get home, I start the download process. As the images are downloading, I grab a few to run a quick edit so I can throw some sneak peeks up on Facebook. For the next few weeks, I spend my time behind my computer culling and editing through every image all while making sure to upload images to social media and post a blog about your wedding.

Houston Outdoor wedding photographerWhen all of the images have been edited, I upload them to an online gallery that I send to the newlyweds. The cool thing about the link is that it’s instant and it can be shared with anyone.

 

Have you seen me dance at your wedding or at a friends wedding? Didn’t happen unless you have video proof! (wink)

 


 

 
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